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c-c-c-c-commitment

ya, here i go thinking again.....
there are a lot of words in here about my...errr...inability to commit...and my preference to being committed over committing. last week i was speaking with someone about defining "commitment". i was able to sum it up in a sentence by saying that i think commitment is meeting the relationship expectations of the other. i've heard a better definition this week that surely makes it more attainable and was given to me by a man who is inspiring a feeling of commitment in me. (whoa, did i say that? ya, i did). he told me commitment is doing what it takes to make a relationship work. and there is the "r" word too....relationship. can i put them in the same sentence? like...uhhh....ummm....as in a....committed relationship?
ya, i think i can.
i think i will......

lots of smiles....

maia

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onesubgal
Jul. 26th, 2002 01:13 pm (UTC)
Whoever said that to you is so right. :) I'm learning that first hand right now..and also learning that it is so very much worth it.

Good luck.
Tanya
melissamuse
Jul. 26th, 2002 01:26 pm (UTC)
thanks.... sometimes it just takes the right words from the right person, yes?
and luck back to you as we learn together :)
smiles..
maia
onesubgal
Jul. 26th, 2002 04:20 pm (UTC)
*smile*

You are so right. It does take the right person. Thankfully, I've found a great guy who loves me a whole lot. :)

And thanks for the well wishes.

Tanya
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